Signs of Child Sexual Abuse

It can be difficult for a child to verbally report child sexual abuse, especially for younger children. However, there are several signs and symptoms of child sexual abuse that may indicate that a child is suffering harm. These signals can appear in virtually every part of a child’s life and do not always include a visible physical injury.

Signs and symptoms of child sexual abuse are commonly visible in children in terms of behavioral, emotional, and physical changes. Potential long-term effects of child sexual abuse are also important to look out for in children who may have experienced abuse.

Physical Signs

  • Difficulty walking or sitting

  • Torn, stained, or bloody underclothing

  • Pain, itching, bruises, or bleeding in the genital area

  • Sexually transmitted infections (STIs)

  • Pregnancy, especially in young adolescents

  • Frequent urinary tract infections (UTIs)

Behavioral Signs

  • Sudden changes in behavior or performance at school

  • Withdrawal, depression, or excessive fearfulness

  • Aggression, anger, or defiance

  • Regression to earlier behaviors (e.g., bedwetting, thumb sucking)

  • Avoidance of certain people or places

  • Reluctance to change clothes in front of others

  • Running away from home

  • Use of sexual language or knowledge inappropriate for age

  • Seductive or overly sexualized behavior

Emotional Signs

  • Low self-esteem or self-worth

  • Guilt, shame, or feelings of responsibility for the abuse

  • Nightmares or sleep disturbances

  • Sudden mood swings or anxiety

  • Suicidal thoughts or self-harming behaviors

Social Signs

  • Loss of interest in friends or usual activities

  • Isolation from peers

  • Difficulty trusting others or forming relationships

  • Sudden fear of being left alone with a specific person